Today, we will speak on a few types of influential personalities from the people we keep in or keep out of our lives. Whether you realize it or not, the influential personalities you surround yourself with can significantly impact your future. We will learn the differences between a toxic person, an anchor-type personality, and a person who acts as embers for our fire. Can you identify these people in your life?

Toxic People: The Negative Energy Drainers

The first type of influential personality to watch out for is toxic people. These individuals are the easiest to identify. They might be the ones who borrow too much money, ask for too many things, and give far too little to your betterment. Toxic people embody negative energy, bringing unnecessary drama and hardship into your life. They do not contribute positively and instead drain your emotional resources.

Toxic people can come in all shapes and forms, often hiding within your friend pool or even among family members. They may appear close, but they likely do not have your best interests at heart. The thing about these toxic influential personalities is that they care most about themselves. If it benefits them, they will make you believe it’s something you want or should pursue. They can be very manipulative, consistently taking from your cup while expecting you to fill theirs. These individuals are primarily takers, offering you nothing but anxiety, hardship, and worry.

Anchor-Type Personalities: Weights Holding You Back

Next, we have the anchor-type personalities. While they are better than toxic individuals, they still provide minimal benefit to your well-being. These influential personalities can often go unnoticed. They may be your best friends, co-workers, or family members who act as weights, slowing down your progress toward fulfilling your dreams. Though they might seem like peacekeepers, they often keep you stagnant, embodying negative energy that can hold you back.

However, these anchors can evolve into something more. When they witness you pursuing your dreams, they can become the embers that help light your flame. But until that transformation occurs, it’s essential to minimize your interactions with these influential personalities. Set yourself free to attain your fullest potential; when they see your determination, they may be inspired to follow suit.

Embers: The Supportive Uplifters

Finally, we have the embers. These influential personalities are the ones who elevate you. They challenge you to reach your limits for your betterment and progress. They ignite your flame and keep it burning brightly. Embers are the ones who believe in you, even when you struggle to believe in yourself. Keeping these people close can propel both you and them toward accomplishing any goal.

The Power of Your Circle

There’s a fundamental truth about who you surround yourself with daily. If you surround yourself with millionaires, you will develop the mindset of a millionaire. Conversely, if you associate with those filled with drama and negative energy, your life will inevitably reflect that chaos. However, if you choose to surround yourself with ambitious people, dreamers, go-getters, and doers, you will start to align with those positive traits.

Conclusion: Choose Wisely

In life, you will encounter various influential personalities. Some will put you down, some will keep you stuck where you are, and others will help you reach your aspirations. Today, I encourage you to assess where you belong. Understand the influential personalities in your life and consciously decide to distance yourself from those who do not light your flame. Embrace self-empowerment by surrounding yourself with those who inspire growth, positivity, and ambition.

Until then, Friends,

Michael Rearden

Founder of Reven Concepts